He e-mailed me on my birthday last week to tell me he wouldn't pay anymore of the bills. Today I found out he had fraudulantly set up a direct debit on my account so he wouldn't have to pay cancellation fee on the contract. Bank said I could notify police but as I found it befor any money taken out didn't seem worth it.
It's only 2 months since he left but I delt with it without tears and drama.I think I may be moving on!!!
Would have been a good idea to at least have informed the police about this fraudulent transaction or compose a letter to him pointing out that any further instances will be reported to them
They would most likely not take it any further, police time etc.., but they would write to him about it as a case matter, that would frighten him into not doing it again, unless of course he likes prison food......LOL
Nice to see someone moving on after such a short time, shows that you really didn't care about him...
I get hurt when I think of 25 years, but I cant think they are wasted because I have my wonderful children. but I still get angry now rather than tearful for now. But I have everything still to organise. I am kind of in limbo. I am sure I will lose the house, he is paying mortgage for now but he wont pay that forever.
I spent for the first fortnight in permanent tears, couldnt watch anything or hear a song but now I am stronger and over that.
it is true time heals, but I am terrified about the future. I cant have any dealings with him right now. He emailed me too to say he wasnt paying as much next month and that just totally churned me right up again.
I dont know how I will ever cope with the actual divorce or any final settlement.
I just go day to day for now.