Can anyone give me expamples of what constitutes sunreasonable behaviour please. I intend to use this as the reason for divorce. I know that I will have to give 3 or 4 examples of his unreasonalbe behaviour. Do they have to be major events (like the time I discovered he had been veiwing explict porn online), or can they be small, continuning events, like lack of maritail relations, dereliction of family life because he chose to spend his time drinking?
Thanks, that's what I thought. The accumilation of small, everyday events that made life unbearable is what I had in mind, I also thought that I could use the facts that he has depression which he refuses to get treated, and refusing all help to treat his drinking problem (which he blames me for). I had hoped not to go down this road, but after the letter he sent me last week, where he warns me not to take advantage of his finaces and that he has supported me and my kids for 4 years (the length of our marriage) made me realise that he wasn't going to be civil. I understand him wanting his share of the house money, it is rightfully his, but I won't be bullied or harrassed like he was doing via his letter.
As Scottish lady said. U have 2 reasons. They dont have to be major. The hard bit as you will find out is getting the petition back and signed. Have you spoke to your ex about it? I made up my reasons for my ex as she didnt have anything that she could do me on. So what I did was chose opposites. What respondents find hard is seeing the reasons in black and white on paper. That according to my sol is what causes the problem so if you could get his input that will be better. If not just do just enough. At the end of the day you just want to get your divorce with the minimum fuss. Thats the end game. Good luck. Chris.
It can cover anything. I'm divorcing my husband for his violent outbursts and complete indifference throughout my pregnancy amongst other things. He's contesting this and has put in his own petition where the juciest thing he could come up with was my "giving him a nasty look."