Hi am new to this forum - I have found it whilst trying to research some answers to my questions .
Together for 10 years , married for 7 1/2 and he moved out over bonfire weekend saying he wants a divorce - we have no kids although he has two from his first marriage ( walked out on her TOO after ten years and left her with two young boys - I should have seen the signs ).
We are now trying to sort out the finaces over the house what a nightmare - looks as though I will have to sell to pay him what he wants - anyone had a " mesher " agreemant //
Hello and welcome to the site
couple of ques has the divorce started if so how far, sorting fianances does not begin until a nisi is issued, as for meshers they are common and usefull when there are yough children they alow both partys to maitain an interest in the family marital home with a % each of the gross value if you would like more advice post FMH value outstanding morgage who will be the main carer for the children (will they still have overnight stays with you) and others with more knowledge and expirence will answer you can also read the step by step wiki giude to divorce that will also help bye for now, dukey