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Arghghghhgg Mad as a mad person could be

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20 Feb 08 #14557 by twinks
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Gave hubs the papers on Sunday after all sorts of hell, he said could he stay till the house we rent out is sold, sale is going thru, and he said tenants arent moving out for 3 weeks, so could he stay till then. SO being nice and a fool, I said ok although I didnt want to.

ANyway tonight the tenant phoned and he answered, when he came off the phone I ask when was the tenant moving out and hubs said 4 weeks. Well I know him better than he knows himself knew he was lying, so i texed tenant sayig i needed to know the date for the records he texed saying that the lease runs out tomorrow and that he moved out last saturday.

The lousely lying beep. He has showed our 8 year old son the paprs and told him what they are, his mother has called me all sorts on the phone to my son, and the atmosphere in the house is a nightmare, I am terrified of his next outburst and the kids are being effected, and he doesnt care, he just lies again and again.

I am so mad, but will stay calm and keep my mouth shut as tomoro is sons birthday, but all I want to do is put all his clothes in bin bags and take them to the house and tell him to get lost.

And on top of that I have bronchitus and feel like poo :(:(:(:(

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20 Feb 08 #14558 by Jacko
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It’s very sad to hear that your H feels the need to show your son the papers! And also sad that your sons grandmother(?) also feels the need to tell your son what she thinks of you!

I doesn’t seem fair at all that one so young has to be subjected to this! My situation isn’t a very pleasant one but I would not wish to try and influence my children in such a way.

I will let my children make their own minds up about things and not try and divided their loyalties. Though I know my wife does such things.

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20 Feb 08 #14562 by chillygirl
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HE thinks he is clever but you were right to not trust him.

Enjoy your sons birthday and rest up and get better

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