I agree on all those.... best piece of advice I have been given is "Keep your cool and remain amicable" and so far its working fairly out, but it is SO HARD esp when your wife is probably seeing someone else when living under the same roof.
But long term it is best to just shut it out and keep cool!
Mick. Depends on the worse other. If she is on your case all the time its hard to be amicable. I agree on the keep cool bit. There were times when I could have slotted her. I remember once sitting in the conservetory (during one of her abuse sessions) and thinking to myself what it would be like to slide a sword into her torso from the top. It was a nice thought. Chris.