hi after 2 and a half years i am finally divorced it is the financial side we cant get sorted we were together 18 years and have 1 child who is 19 and can support himself. my ex wife left me and my son and went to move in her fathers house rent free not having to pay a penny she now lives in her fathers house with her boyfriend which she has done since she left! My x wife takes around 5 months between each solicitors letter to reply that is when she can b bothered to reply I have made sveral financial offers to which she has refused point blank so as i wanted it over and done with i made her the full offer to which she asked which is to be honest over 50% it has now been over 5 months any advice to what i can do i cant offer any more as I cant afford it and the more my solicitor pesters her to reply the more adament she is to keep waiting but for what? My solicitor has said she just wants to make me suffer I cant afford to take it to court what can I do? I now have a new girlfriend and a baby will i be forced to sell the house?