Intimidation & Harrassment

IIKT,
Glad you are feeling a bit better. Hope matters come to a swift closure, before he makes a big mistake and ruins his future and his relationship with his kids. Good luck, Mike

It's advisable to keep a 'Conduct Diary' of his behaviour. Whereby you log each time, and date he harrasses you or the kids, and his actions. It might be irrelevent now, but in such a case - you may need these timing, and it'll form the body of your case.

how does one porove false accustations of Intimidation & Harrassment

Sorry missed this bit : - as off before the divorce took place, and can I take my kids (adults to prove the X is fabricating everything including abusing kids.

Skyelord_Max wrote:

how does one porove false accustations of Intimidation & Harrassment

Skyelord,
In the 'court preparation' section, I have a non-mol/conduct thread:

www.wikivorce.com/joomla/Divorce-Forum/C...n-Conduct-order.html

Sorry, it's long! But I'm showing how I'm proving false allegations:

ie: I'm 25 miles away from home, when he states I'm harrassing him all day, by banging on the door! (Have got parking pay-and-display voucher, have got 3 credit card receipts from lunch, shops and petrol station, putting me 10-25 miles away from when he's claiming). etc.

I don't have CCTV in my house, BUT: the shopping centre car park does! And I've asked them to prove I'm 25 miles away!

I've listed a few things I'm defending. All explained in that thread.

FOR THE FORTH TIME OF TRYING
Im geting seriously miffed with being logged out just as I try to send this

Ok an even shorter version again.

Thanks for note Sera,

unfortunately i dont have camera or letter proof of what Im being accsued of and harrsaed with

being accused of basicly of intimidation harrasment over all the years. all debts are my fault even tho its her sig on it all, I forced X to sign and used the money.

one point I can prove is that X accused me of not letting her have the car as I had took the enigine out:- yet X sold to daughters partner/boyfriend for £2500 my daugher gave the cash, can I bring them in as witness to show she is lying

Denies having cash of £1735 yet I have witnesses and sig from the above to say it was given to her, again can they be brought in to show X is lieing.

all in all it would take a while to post all Xs reply to the questions asked by my sol in that I wrote in my blog.

The problem I have is that because she has taken so long to reply to these it has left me no time to gather info for replies to these accusations apart from witnesses. as the meeting is next week what can I do or will the judge just trow out hearsay.

Skyelord... I understand your frustrations! Both with the forum replies: (A few of us noticed long replies 'time-out', so don't get posted) Best copy and save before attempting to post.

.......and the court.

Re: Your hearing, read thru' my posts in my own thread, I outline the proceedure, first hearing was just half hour, solution as I pointed out (seperate rooms etc).
I have to await the courts instructions as to what I can do next. (They'll issue a date when they have one). I may just have to put together another statement. Not sure yet if I can use either witnesses (in presence) or witness statements.

I'm just getting together as much as I can, It's hard!

I'm not sure how to advise you further? I'm not sure if you just have half hour allocated? (In chambers, with district judge). You (or your solicitor) can ring the court, ask for the court office, give them the case number, and they'll know how much time it's been allocated if it's next week.

You could prove the bit about the car, (even if they suggest that's for the financial settlements) at least a scrap of 'evidence' that suggests she can lie.

My ex has just had his witnesses sign bits of paper. None of them 'witnessed' anything to do with non-mol, they just witnessed that they 'think' he's stressed (due to me living in the house)!