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19 Oct 07 #4954 by madaboutcars

Topic started by madaboutcars

Just a thought, but
does anybody ever wonder if their x2b/wife/husband/husband new partner/wife new partner etc also writes on this website and you could be giving each other advice, lol

So chose your user name carefully!!??

Sera
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19 Oct 07 #4957 by Sera

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His head is too far up his a*se to see a Computer screen.

Vail
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19 Oct 07 #4959 by Vail

Reply from Vail

Aha! Sera, so you ARE my wife!

Sera
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19 Oct 07 #4963 by Sera

Reply from Sera

We're yet to have a wikivorce wedding!

sexysadie
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19 Oct 07 #4966 by sexysadie

Reply from sexysadie

I do more than wonder: I am always aware that he may be in here and reading my posts. That's why (if anyone has noticed) I reveal so little about my own situation. I still get a lot of comfort from the site, though.

sadie

Flower21
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19 Oct 07 #4967 by Flower21

Reply from Flower21

Nope, he's too busy with the new woman! Anyway, if I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and.... what have I got to lose? I come out smelling of roses and he is unmasked as the evil git that he is.

Sera
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20 Oct 07 #4988 by Sera

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Flower21 wrote:

Anyway, if I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and....

Agreed! I haven't posted anything on here that is not true. I have not posted anything I wouldn't care for him to see.

He seems to be wasting an aweful lot of money on Sols, for 'advice' that is readilly available on-line. I actually told him to use Forums (didn't specify this one!) Then he'd get a clue about how the system works.

F'rinstance: He gos to Sol, wants me 'gone'.

Sol listens to countless hours of his diatribe.. then when I learn I have matrimonial home Rights, he goes back to sol, stating I claim to have such rights...

His sol agrees that indeed, I do!

(So, he's just wasting money sitting in his sols office having a moan!)

He also thinks that because he's applying for divorce in January, it'll be granted next day. Erm. Not!

He's cancelled mediation; which is why I started the 'how long' thread, and I've told him not to expect a divorce before Jan 2010; with the way the system works.

So, if he got more clued up, we'd be in an easier position to divorce quickly.

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