Just a thought, but
does anybody ever wonder if their x2b/wife/husband/husband new partner/wife new partner etc also writes on this website and you could be giving each other advice, lol
So chose your user name carefully!!??
I do more than wonder: I am always aware that he may be in here and reading my posts. That's why (if anyone has noticed) I reveal so little about my own situation. I still get a lot of comfort from the site, though.
Nope, he's too busy with the new woman! Anyway, if I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and.... what have I got to lose? I come out smelling of roses and he is unmasked as the evil git that he is.
Anyway, if I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and....
Agreed! I haven't posted anything on here that is not true. I have not posted anything I wouldn't care for him to see.
He seems to be wasting an aweful lot of money on Sols, for 'advice' that is readilly available on-line. I actually told him to use Forums (didn't specify this one!) Then he'd get a clue about how the system works.
F'rinstance: He gos to Sol, wants me 'gone'.
Sol listens to countless hours of his diatribe.. then when I learn I have matrimonial home Rights, he goes back to sol, stating I claim to have such rights...
His sol agrees that indeed, I do!
(So, he's just wasting money sitting in his sols office having a moan!)
He also thinks that because he's applying for divorce in January, it'll be granted next day. Erm. Not!
He's cancelled mediation; which is why I started the 'how long' thread, and I've told him not to expect a divorce before Jan 2010; with the way the system works.
So, if he got more clued up, we'd be in an easier position to divorce quickly.