I removed my rings before i even split up with him , i then put them in my jewellery box, then i got them out again and put them on the finger on my right hand , i have left my engagement ring on my right hand finger as i think it's a pretty ring it don't mean anything else to me , my wedding ring right now is sitting on my coffee caddy dunno why , i feel it represents a lie i have lived and it's not worthy of being in my jewellery box as i have rings that belonged to my grandmother's in there.You'll know when the time is right to remove your rings, as with what you do with them i don't know him he don't even know where his is or so he says.Don't even know why i still have mine can't answer that question.
I stopped wearing my engagement and eternity ring when I felt the marriage was over, and they are currently in my purse. I plan on giving them to my daughter, but I don't know if X2B will agree to it, or even if he had a say ion the matter.
I still have my wedding ring on, because i am still living with him and the kids, and I don't want to upset the kids.
I will remove the ring when I leave. I'm not sure if I will give that to my daughter too.
My STBX had hers off before we attended the first Relate session. Don't know what she did with it. She replaced it with another ring that I had bought for her. I asked her not to wear any rings that I had bought for her on her wedding ring finger, as I found it offensive.
She like to pretend she is different things on different days. Sometimes she will be wearing a ruby ring with the stone on the inside to pretend she is married, when it suits. Bizarre!
I took my ring off 2 weeks ago, took a lot of cooking oil to prise it off and it me left with a sore finger for 3 days but it was worth it.I'm not bothered about the ring,it wasn't the original one anyway,I'm more bothered about the white ring mark and mishaped finger after 34 years of wearing one.