I worked long hours throuhout my marriage but find myself unable to keep my wife and kids in the family home. As i am self employed i could theoretically work as many hours as i want but dont feel i have it in me anymore. I feel enormous guilt perhaps due to pressure from my ex. Early on my kids all said that they diddnt mind moving but now i can feel a shift in their stance on this. I would apreciate the views of others on this as it is eating away at me.