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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

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How do I keep going?

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21 Jan 08 #11295 by loobyloo
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keep strong i stuck it 4 months and quit and ended up giving up my lovely job kids school etc and relocated... I now with hinesight perhaps should have been more persistent in ousting him out.. just didnt have the fight and had to think of establishing some state of normality for kids...as living under the same roof as him was not good for me or kidsHes still in house ?? his game plan got fh in the next few months so will see his intention, I know as sad inearliier posts it went down from 395k to 335k in the 6 months he been alone in it!!!
keep strong

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21 Jan 08 #11296 by rubytuesday
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Be strong, remain strong, radiate strength - something I say to my self every day, yes I know it's cr*p, but most of the time it works for me.
I understand your desperation, the last 18months of my marriage was hell, I sometimes felt I couldn't get through another day.

Nothing I can say will help change your situation, so am sending you a huge hug instead.
Take care, and there is always someone on here for you.

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