A well respected, award winning social enterprise
Volunteer run - Government and charity funded
We help 50,000 people a year through divorce

01202 805020

Mon/Fri 9am-6pm       Sat/Sun 2pm-6pm
Call for FREE expert advice & service info


What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.


Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.


So Confused

  • Jerseylass
  • Jerseylass's Avatar Posted by
  • Junior Member
  • Junior Member
More
08 Jun 07 #677 by Jerseylass
Topic started by Jerseylass
:SHello, this is my first time on this site. I found you via blogspot.com where i've been keeping a diary of my days, thoughts and feelings, to try and help me find the right path. Someone gave me your web address. She thought it might help. I have started a blog on here too.
Just don't know what to do for the best really. So many people will get hurt if i leave, but i'm hurting too x

  • DownButNotOut
  • DownButNotOut's Avatar
  • Visitor
  • Visitor
08 Jun 07 #678 by DownButNotOut
Reply from DownButNotOut
Hi jerseylass,

I'm glad you found us! There are a great bunch of people on this site and i know you will find people in a very similar situation to you who will be happy to have a chat.

I'm afraid that i'm a bloke and not great at discussing the emotional / relationship side (I try and help out with legal and financial questions).

But there are loads of ladies on here every day, such as Louise11, Sallyann, petal, shar10, vanessa and i'm sure it wont be too long before one comes along and replies to your post!

  • Jerseylass
  • Jerseylass's Avatar Posted by
  • Junior Member
  • Junior Member
More
08 Jun 07 #679 by Jerseylass
Reply from Jerseylass
Thanks so much down, i'm sure you have an emotional side somewhere lol all men do x

  • shar10
  • shar10's Avatar
  • Junior Member
  • Junior Member
More
08 Jun 07 #681 by shar10
Reply from shar10
welcome jerseylass. I totally understans how you feel. Iv been on this site a few weeks now and its great support.

Thers lots of different experiences and advice, and most importantly, someone there to talk to who is going through the same or has been through the same as you. It really does help.

I cant offer advice on divorce stuff as mine only just starting, but im always here to chat.

  • Jerseylass
  • Jerseylass's Avatar Posted by
  • Junior Member
  • Junior Member
More
08 Jun 07 #682 by Jerseylass
Reply from Jerseylass
Thank you for your kind welcome. I'm on my 2nd marriage. First got married in 1985, it lasted 5 years and got divored a few years later. I then got married again about 2 yrs go (fool that i am) and its already on the rocks. Just wanted to come somewhere where i could chat and maybe help others too.

  • Dawn2509
  • Dawn2509's Avatar
  • Junior Member
  • Junior Member
More
09 Jun 07 #683 by Dawn2509
Reply from Dawn2509
Hello, glad you found the place, and, as I said, it's a lot friendlier than the American site - I'm not sure what they were so worked up about!
Dawn

  • Louise11
  • Louise11's Avatar
  • Platinum Member
  • Platinum Member
More
09 Jun 07 #687 by Louise11
Reply from Louise11
Hi, come and have a chat with us all in the chat room, the last two nights most of us have been there from around 9pm to 3am!! lol, i usually pop in and out throughout the day, so if i see you i will give you a shout. You will love it on here, we've all got a story to tell!
Cya soon
Louise :)

Moderators: wikivorce teamrubytuesdaydukeyhadenoughnowTetsSheziLinda SheridanForsetiMitchumWhiteRoseLostboy67WYSPECIALBubblegum11