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11 Dec 07 #8787 by WINNYSWIFE
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:(IVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND 15YRS AND MARRIED 8 YRS
THE MARRIAGE HIT ROCK BOTTOM AFTER INFERTILITY PROBLEMS AND THE LOSS OF MY BROTHER
HE WASNT THERE TO SUPPORT ME
AND FELT ALONE
BUT COPED AND BROUGHT UP OUR 10YR DAUGHTER
WHO HAD HAD HEALTH PROBS WHILE I STAYED HOME AND HE WORKED FULL TIME

THINGS WENT DOWNHILL ON PROMISES AND PROMISES TO CHANGE
AND THEY NEVER HAPPENED
WE GREW APART AND I LOST ALL FAITH AND TRUST IN HIM
THE ARGUMENTS WERE AWFUL
ALSO HE NEVER GAVE ME ANY MONEY FOR ANYTHING AND ALL WAS IN HIS NAME
AND THE HOUSE COMES WITH THE JOB
AND WAS RAMMED DOWN MY MOUTH REGULARLY

THE LAST 2YRS THINGS GOT REALLY BAD BUT WAS SCARED TO LEAVE AS KNEW WOULD HAVE NOTHING
AND ALSO PROUD AS CLOSE FRIENDS AND FAMILY DIDNT KNOW HOW I WAS FEELING

THIS YEAR THINGS CAME TO A HEAD AND GOT MUCH WORSE
MET UP WITH A MALE FRIEND WHO KNEW WHAT I WAS GOING THRU
TOLD HUBS WAS LEAVING AND GOT THREATENEED WITH LACK OF MONEY AND KEEPING DAUGHTER ALSO
WAS SCARED BUT STILL WENT

WENT TO MALE FRIENDS WITH DAUGHTER FOR THE WEEK
AND GOT THREATS AND WHEN WENT TO LIVE WITH PARENTS IT STILL CONTINUED
ENDED UP IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH MALE FRIEND
AND WAS HAPPY FOR ONCE

THEN THE FUN BEGAN
WAS OFFERED MONEY FOR SALE OF ONE OF 2 CARS
DIDNT TAKE IT AT TIME AS HAD NOWHERE SAFE TO PUT CASH
BUT HAD NASTY CALLS AND WENT BACK TO HOUSE WITH KEY AND TOOK TI FOR A DEPOSIT FOR A HOME

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11 Dec 07 #8788 by TMax
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welcome to wikivorce.
1 Are soliciters involved already
2 Dont pay any attention to threats yu can get orders set agaisnt him if he does
3 Does the home MH have a sale price
4 basicly everything you both own wages pensions house shares, is put into pot debt is taken out and whats left is split to begin with at 50/50 you have child so your share rises plus any other bits that may go your way final split can be anything up to 70% in your favour, having your daughter with you he has to support her till she is 18, keep coming back and youl get better advice, youi may have to supply more info, Its late so IM of to my pit before the sun comes up and I wither away :-)

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