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14 Dec 07 #9036 by Louise11

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Hi Everyone,

I am writing this post as my last ever on Wiki and I want to wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
I have thought long and hard about this and feel its my time to say goodbye, I have spent many many hours on this website, helping people as much as I could because I knew just how people were feeling and what they have been going through with this divorce path, it can be a terrible thing.
A lot of good has come from this website and it helps people immensely, I wish it had been around when it all started for me some 3 years ago.
I have made many friends on this website, you all know who you are, and I also know we will always remain friends.
The time has come for me to get out in that big bad world and start to make a living again, I cant sit here at this computer anymore and do nothing every day, I'm becoming fatter daily and my fitness levels are at an all time low!
I need to feel I have a purpose in life and get a zest for living again, I feel life is passing me by. My kids are no longer kids they are adults and now I need to live life for ME!
I now have a business opportunity that will start in the New Year and need to give it 100% commitment, funny enough its with a person I met through this site. Anyway for the first time in 3 years I feel excited about the future, who knows where it may lead. I cant wait.

Ian I wish you every success with this website, you have given many many people a lifeline, even to the extent people are dating each other after meeting through this website, something that started for you as a bit of a hobby has given hope to thousands of people and I for one am grateful and wish you fantastic health, wealth and most importantly HAPPINESS. I think, in time you will earn a fortune from this website and you deserve it for all the money, time and effort you have put into it. I know how many hours you have spent in dinner hours, working all hours after you have done your day job, I know how much its cost you in time, effort and money and I for one wish you great success.

Many many thanks to everyone for their help and advice i have received over the past few months, I will be forever in your debt.
So everyone, I wish you all the very very best for the future, wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Take care all

Louise11 aka Debzz

XxXxXx

gooner
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14 Dec 07 #9037 by gooner

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hi louise

i didnt know you that well as i have only joined this site a short while ago, but we did chat on the forums lol. i wish you very best wishes for the future in your new job!! and wish you a very merry christmas and a great new year.

good luck & best wishes

Vail
Platinum Member

14 Dec 07 #9039 by Vail

Reply from Vail

Louise,

Goodbye (sob-sob) and the very best of luck in your life ahead.

Thank you for all the helpful and rational posts you have put on this board. They are still accessible and I hope they will remain to be as even though you will not be around in person any more, your knowledge and wisdom will echo through those posts.

Ave atque vale,

Vail

Marshy_
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14 Dec 07 #9046 by Marshy_

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When I joined the site a few weeks ago I thought you ran it! I dont mean that in a bad way as you have done so much here. You are a force on this site and I for one will miss your postings. Your posts have been an inspiration to me and many others past and present. You will be sadly missed by me and many others.

Good luck with the new venture. All the best and happy xmas. F

TMax
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14 Dec 07 #9064 by TMax

Reply from TMax

When Christmas bells are ringing
above the fields of snow,
We’ll think about our Louise
who leaves us now to go,
she’s etched upon these pages
now to be held in time
and I feel sure you’ll know Louise
we shall hold you in our minds
a friend to us one and all
so let us drink a cheer,
Good health Louise in what you do
Merry Christmas from us all
May your dreams be good for ever
Have a wonderful New Year

loobyloo
Visitor

15 Dec 07 #9083 by loobyloo

Reply from loobyloo

Louise
you have truly been an inspiration and wiki wont be the same without the MUMMY.....good luck and fortune to you, you will thrive
will miss you not being round and all your words of wisdom
You will be in my thoughts and prayers over christmas
looby xxxx:(

loobyloo
Visitor

15 Dec 07 #9084 by loobyloo

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