I split with my partner four and half years ago. We have lost touch, but I hear about a letter a year ago (it came a long roundabout route)and it was delivered to a friend of a friends address! I never saw the letter, but the subject was divorce proceedings.
I never answered, I am in another country now. I know longer have access to the address on the letter.
What I would like to know is if I am legally divorced? How can I find out? If so, how can I get the official papers?
Or should I just initiate a divorce myself, to be on the safe side? I have no idea where my ex-partner is now nor do we share mutual acquaintances.
Any help would be appreciated.
By the way, its largely irrelevant now, But I walked after three years of torment and physical and mental abuse... the night she tried to stab me for some imagined slight... I came to my senses and never went back.
She was a beautiful indonesian girl that turned out to be a prolific liar, thief, cheat and prostitute. I loved her and gave her everything, but underneath the surface her character and behaviour never changed one iota.
I am happy and healthy again... and I couldn't face talking to her or seeing her.