Hi , Find out who does it in your area & ring them to find out. My wifes solicitor arranged ours & I just recived a letter asking me to ring in to make an appointment. When I did so I found myself on the phone to them for a good 20 mins as they answered any questions I had. Its definatley the way to go & can save a fourtune in squabbling thro solicitors. OK sorting out the finances etc is never going to be 100% amnicable but they sure as hell help you to reach a good comprimise on both sides. They also have a good knack in shooting down any partners completly unreasonable claims !! Go for it.