Hi,could anyone advise me plz. I have a partner and two children, twin girls age 14. Iam not the father but ive had them from babies and we are very close and they so do not want to leave. I have sadly for the second time in 3 yrs found my girlfriend cheating although shes not aware that i know as much as i do .she came to live with me, never worked never contributed to anything we have.I have had to put up with working, cleaning and cooking for so long now i have to make the choice and end this hell.I would like to know , will i have to sell my house ? its in my name. Would i stand a chance of keeping my girls ? as i said they dont want to go. i have a good job also a small business of my own i can provide for them and love them more than she or the waster of a real dad could, who sees them twice a year if he can be botherd.that may seem harsh but it makes me so mad at times.This has come at the worst time for their schooling and how can any mom do this at such an important stage. I want to keep them but she says ive no rights and will never see them again. any advice will help, thanks . Carl.
U say the magic word. Partner. No marriage so no divorce. Excellent. Basically she has no hold on you whatsoever. You can just walk away. I dont think you have to sell your house. I am fairly certain that is not the case. But in 10 lines I cannot advise you. I dont have enough to go on.
The stepkids. You have no parental rights there at all. The only way you would get custody is to adopt them and I doubt in the current climate that would not happen. Courts almost always come down on the side of biology and for good reason.
Perhaps she will leave and could let you look after them. Not sure how this would happen in law. I know you can be a legal guardian. Perhaps thats the way forward. I am sorry I cant advise much more. Hope it helped though.