I think, at the moment, I have simply too much to do to worry about wikimeets.
Unfortunately. I''ve more or less got over the initial shock at my wife''s death, which was very much expected, but there are 1001 things to do afterwards.
Added to this, I am not sure Christmas is a good time for a wikimeet. I will have to have a further think when I get back hopefully next week,s hurricans permitting.