no whatyou mean where do you start i had been with my stbx 31yrs in oct only found out about what she been up to 2mounths ago
and that had been going on for18mounths as for dating i do not have a clue is it be for or after all your divorce is finalised or what
My advice is just be yourself. Be your real self and don't pretend. Don't pretend nothing bad has happened in your life, it usually has to everyone once you really get to know them.
Because my children are one of the most important parts of my life, everyone I meet will be aware of them after a first meeting.
All people are different (the world would be dull otherwise) so there will never be a book that covers all women, men, etc. All you can do is learn from your life experiences and hopefully come out a wiser, more rounded person.
If I can just add to the be yourself stuff.
Be interested. Look interested. Listen (you know how hard it is to listen without the mind wandering?). Process what the other person says.
What most people hate is being viewed as a peice of meat. Or a sha* and not be listened to.
I know I say this a lot but I mean it. We are people 1st and last. And we all have a view and we all have something to say. If you follow these simple methods you will have people flocking to you. More friends than you need. Ok I am joking a bit. But this is basic stuff. And is at the core of atracting people. But if you can do one thing out of all this then listening is the most important one of all.
Last bit. As a challange, recount exactly word for word the last convo you had? See? You didnt listen did you? Haha. C.