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04 Apr 08 #18535 by distraught
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Hi. Thought you'd like to know that I won in court last week. Only concessions were that my wife would move back in and occupy main bedroom as I had originally agreed.It is hell having her back here though. it's bad enough going a divorce still loving her, seeing her on a daily basis is tearing me apart.:(
hopefully, this should be finally resolved in a couple of months.
Thanks again for the good advice.

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I'm glad you let us know how you got on. Just wanted to send you my best wishes and say I hope things get sorted soon.

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16 Apr 08 #19725 by hedgecroft
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I have only joined this site today and have found it great to know that other people have suffered the same pain as myself. I know it may sound selfish but its true.

I was with the same partner for 19 years but only married for 10 years. On the surface we looked like the perfect family I have 2 boys 9 and 12 and a 15 year old foster daugter. My daughter was a complete dads girl and I could do no wrong. My boys are also very close to me. I have a good job and work long hours so I have weekends off and spent it on the children often by myself.

Now in December 06 I had enough of this empty relationship and went flat hunting so I could move out but dont laugh fell in love with the Estate agent. My wife new I was going to leave and our friends expected it too but she faked her suicide and we had the police involved, assaulted the man from the mediation centre and to finish it off told social services I had messed with our foster daughter.

I was interviewed by the police and my daughter has been rehomed and has not been allowed to talk or see me since December. I'm in the process of going to court to get access to her and I'm confident this will be achieved.

My wife then proceeded to tell my boys what I had done to their sister and my 12 year old refused to see me. We have worked through this over MSN and text messages over the last few weeks. I also had them over again this weekend so its really tough and I know my ex has not finished yet. Due to her state of mind I'm currently considering going for access not something I originally planned to do but I have a supportive partner that thinks it may be for the best as we never know what my ex will do next.

I hear so many women complain that their ex does not want to see their children and then those that are keen to see their children get access blocked.

Good luck to everyone out there that reads this and just remember there is always someone out there worse off than yourself.

So would that person please step forward so I can feel a bit better tonight.



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