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I think I am loosing my marbles.

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25 Apr 08 #20593 by townie
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Hi Lost24 Are you sure your s2bx and mine aren't the same person ?LOL they sound so alike!I have figured out the lying is them covering their guilt or so they think.My s2bx used to pick fights so he wouldn't feel so guilty when he was off with his other women.(he was then feeling justified because I was such a bitch!).Yes he made me doubt everything about myself.
Now with hindsight it is himself he had the problems with.he has admitted as such that even though we are finished he isn't happy with his new life.
I find it hard to trust people anyway, but am trying to convince myself that not everyone is unworthy.I hope councelling helps.

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25 Apr 08 #20615 by lost24
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Hi Townie

Perhaps they are the same person! Well at least the same breed.
I think I should have gone to a councellor but i have tried to cope on my own. I am still considering it though. Let me know how you get on.
This week has been bad for me as he now wants to return to mediation (eventhough he refused to continue back in October) but now with another mediator, which is more expensive.I think he hopes to get a better result by paying more!!! I just don't think I can cope with him trying to bully me into acepting less than I am entitled to.
If it was just me then i could understand it but why won't he see the children?
My mind just goes round and round in circles and I feel unable to cope with even the smallest details when it comes to dealing with the divorce.
Hope you get on ok today.

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