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06 Jun 08 #24996 by stimo
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I am in a very complicated situation and i am becoming paranoid (i think). i have a third share in a business with my stbx and her best (gay) friend, who she now lives with temporarily (told you it was complicated)!

we separated 6 months ago and i admit i was totally at fault for our breakup. i still love my ex with all my heart and until our home was put on the market last week, i still had hopes of a reconciliation (i have tried everything to win her back).

she has told me that there is no one else involved and that another man is the last thing she needs. but i have a gut feeling and a nagging doubt that she has not only found someone new but is also planning and plotting to take over the business.

she has changed so much recently that i honestly dont really recognise her anymore and i dont know what she is capable off. i have tired to reassure her that i can and will give 100% to our business and have offered to take some of her stressfull responsibilities from her.

admittedly, i suggested that she should consider coming in part-time because she has looked unwell recently due to our personal and business problems. she has taken me up on my offer and i am working my butt off for both of us which i dont mind. the problem is... i think i have just given her the time and opportunity to absolutely ruin me and i fear she will.

i'm sorry for the way i treated her in the past and have pleaded for forgiveness, i have this awful feeling that i am about to get what i deserve!

i wish i could understand the way a woman's mind works, the not knowing is killing me!


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