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19 Apr 12 #325017 by donkler
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My STBX wife who lives under the same roof as me, today, has set me back a little bit.

She stopped out all night last night, she made a point of telling me shestopped at her mum and dads, who knows weather this is true or not ??

But she goes to work, says goodbye

Then I get 2 text messages

"I still love u u know always will"

"This is so so hard I will love you forever I know that"

Now I know, being 12 months in that its probably all a load of rubbish, as shes tied being nasty with me to get more mnoney from me for settlement.....but god its set me back


For a guy with morals, well more than she has, it messes with my head, probably designed to isnt it. :unsure:

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19 Apr 12 #325032 by Shoegirl
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Please for your own sanity ignore it. Mine started all this crxp. You know the one piece of information that you need to know. She lies. So as hard as this is to accept she on some level is still able to manipulate you because she is messing with your head.

Words are cheap. Actions speak. She stayed out all night. The reconciliation was one sided. You have all the information you need based on actions

Some people don''t know what love is or what the word means That''s why words mean little.

Keep moving forward into your new life. It''s hard but it gets easier. Take care

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19 Apr 12 #325089 by donkler
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Suspisions confirmed shoegirl. I wont negotiate on the settlement and i got abuse from her.

Hope i die etc....how nasty can these people get?

She had the affair.....not me


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