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09 May 12 #329373 by insane
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having been a member here now for 3 years i would just like to thank those who have advised me along the way :)
i have recently found myself back here looking for advice and checking the archives as well as making sure my sanity remains intact,:laugh:reading all your other posts has made me appreciate im not alone i have support of family and friends however i dont think they really appreciate the pressure and stress im feeling on a day to day basis because of my divorce.
anyway a little update i am divorced Decree Absolute granted last year however despite 2 attempts at mediation and a Consent Order signed but never seen in court i now find myself back here.. now in the process of filling in my 3rd form E with a court date of 25th july for first hearing i wonder will this ever end ?? and look forward to another year of this O.M.G i question how i have coped but for what its worth i have .... seriously feeling pretty fed up and fragile but i wont be giving up anytime soon, im hoping the judge is not too daunting as im probably gonna be self repping my way through this dur to lack of funds and wasted funds allready so i may be about a bit longer this time as i feel less alone knowing there are others here in similar positions who understand this process better than i do ... again thanx for your time and support you are all fantastic people have a great day x:)

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10 May 12 #329607 by rubytuesday
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Insane ( a change of username perhaps? ;))

Good luck for the 25th July - this will be over one day.

Wikivorce is full of information and advice for those self-repping, and we have lots of experienced self-reppers who pass on the benefit of their experience to others on the forum.

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