Had a dip last night and texted her to merely ask if her move home had went well. Received a call from an unknown no - OM, telling me that they''d been together for weeks and to eff off. Shocked, I called her and was told she loved him, had slept with him and never wanted to talk again. Just three weeks ago we were supposedly in love. I am in bits and cannot take any more.
I''ve accepted in my head that it''s over but I cannot grasp her cruelty or utter lack of any feeling whatsoever. I thought I knew her. I was so very wrong All those years and shared experiences and memories.
Well you don''t know whether your wife asked the OM to phone you or not but either way I personally, and I think many of us on here, would not want to be with a man who so easily decides that he wants to ring up a husband and give him abuse.
Your wife is beginning to sound more and more like a person who you do not need to be around. It sounds to me that you, like so many of us on here me included, have been wearing rose tinted spectacles regarding your wife for a very long time.
Really, really cruel and people don''t turn cruel overnight. She is not going to change but you do have the chance to because of your conscience.
There is a better life. Hang in there and work for it - you are worth it.