I think it was Marshy that said we females cope far better with all this.
That doesn''t mean we find it easy because it''s one of the hardest things I''ve ever had to cope with. But even though I didn''t think I would, I am coping, and so will you. No one will tell you it will be easy but you will cope, and you will be a better person because of it.
just to update.
I have spent the week thinking how things are and how i need to move on now,and i dont know why but i seem to have turned a corner and been looking at solicitors,and feel like im ready to do it now.
Thank you to all the wikis last week bcoz i wouldnt be where i am now without your support.