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Emotional Abuse

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28 Mar 13 #386713 by Nigella19
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Well thank goodness you did manage Cazza and got you and your son through it, shows you how strong you are. Strong enough to get through those worries you were posting about the other day.

Best wishes, Nige x

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28 Mar 13 #386715 by hawaythelads
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My wallets been abused.
I''m very emotional about that :blink:
His Royal Hawayness

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28 Mar 13 #386720 by Flyinghigh34
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I was subject (and still was up til a few weeks back when ex arrested for harassment) to daily emotional abuse and sometimes threats to knock me out, pushing me, smacking me around the head with remote control (in front if child) strangling etc. when I finally got him arrested the emotional abuse has contained now he is no longer at the house

Your mental
An unfit mother
Your a nutter
Your father would turn in his grave
Wrote to my family saying if we go to the they will see I am an un fit mother and mentally I''ll and take the children off me
Wrote to my friends saying my family and his day I am mentally ill

Basically bad mouthing me to everybody and anybody (have doctors statement I have never suffered from any mental illness)

Just because I wanted a divorce and wanted to get away from my cheating abusive violent aggressive husband

Some days I wonder how I did it, doing it, where my strength comes from

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28 Mar 13 #386741 by Marshy_
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Losing hope wrote:

Some days I wonder how I did it, doing it, where my strength comes from


You and me both. I often wonder how I managed to get out alive. But I did. As for strength. It comes from somewhere. No idea where though.

My ex was a compulsive liar. Abusive. Violent. Manipulative. Where did that come from I wonder? Her parents were kind gentle people. C

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28 Mar 13 #386766 by blonde cazza
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It''s amazing what they do when you want a divorce...I had false Facebook''s set up my friends harassed....bad mouthed to people and my car damaged...but I''m still standing dont know how but I am:)

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30 Mar 13 #386938 by Flyinghigh34
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A good friend said to me

If he cheated, lied and abused you during the marriage expect it to get a whole lot worse during a divorce''

So far that''s true

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02 Apr 13 #387377 by Yummy_Mummy
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When people hurt you over and over,
Think of them like sand paper.
They may scratch and hurt you bit,
But in the end,
You end up polished.


This has helped me, hope it helps you guys as well.

Best Wishes.
YM.

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