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must have been a right wicked bitch in my past liv

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05 Oct 12 #359544 by honeybeeee
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HEY,

Have sat here typed & retyped & retyped.

At the end of the day is it all worth it????

YES YES YES to the extent that I have vented all my anger
BUT

at least I have not washed all my dirty linen in public......

Oh my God.

Flood gates are open yet again....

I WILL NOT.


I WILL NOT

I WILL NOT


LET HIM BEAT ME........

Cor Blimey. I''ve ranted &raged so much so.

Will finish here coz ....

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06 Oct 12 #359567 by sun flower
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I think many of us go through the ''what did we do to deserve this?...surely we don''t deserve this?''.....and of course, we probably don''t.

Look around you in life - we all know the most awful (and lovely) things happen to the underserving.

I try to think of it as we are caught within the jetsam and flotsam of life, and at the moment we are being buffeted by forces that are outwith our control, and we will end up on strange shores that may at first seem hostile. It is what we do from there that will define us.

But, hunker down, and survive the storm first. When the sands stop moving - then you will feel more able to look up and ahead.

For now - you job is to stay alive. There have been days when I have said to myself - my challenge is to stay alive, survive. It is worth it - and you will be a wiser stronger lady for it. But on bad days remember, don''t be cross with yourself. The pain has to be processed. Just ''allow'' it. It is hell - but it will pass. (And come back and pass, for a time - but eventually it will pass.)

Just hang on honeybee - you really are not alone.

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06 Oct 12 #359596 by perin123
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Honeybee

Just wanted to send you my support, as Scaryclaire said, you are NOT alone in this....:(

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06 Oct 12 #359599 by julie321
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Honeybee

I too feel like this. It seems the wicked people get on in this world and the rest take the flack for it.

I try to be nice as I go along in life but it always semms if I do a good deed even a small one it comes back to bite me. However I will not change how I am so will just put up with it and hope one day my luck changes.

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06 Oct 12 #359600 by QPRanger
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Agreed. Those with no morals at face value seem to get away with it and do what they want, and in my experience, the legal system does not punish them for this.
Lets hope what comes around goes around....

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06 Oct 12 #359606 by julie321
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Mmm
I don''t think it does though QP, not n my experience anyway.

I have seen it too many times in both my work life experience and personal life, but may be it does for some.

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06 Oct 12 #359608 by QPRanger
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Yeah you are probably right Julie.

"Nice guys finish last" :(

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