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06 Oct 12 #359603 by honeybeeee
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Thanks Scaryclairie & perin123.

Do you know, WELL OF COURSE YOU ALL DO!!! I am so glad I found all you lovely people on this site.

I was at my local library yesterday coz needed to get a copy of email my Sol. sent me. & to sign before she could progress any further.

She has been lovely incidently.
Another true GODSEND.
But I digress.

At library, I got talking to the 2 librarians &&&& other ladies....

It turns out that there is "always a silver lining in every cloud.."
if I''ve got my saying right...

There are a large number of us ladies out there....All going thru the horror/disbelief/fear oh I could go on for ages....


We have now decided that we will all meet up, Mon. Tue for a good old chin wag.

I''ll provide the cake. Others, the tea/coffee/tissues....

God, I have felt so alone, so isolated.


There you go.

My daughter is coming home this W/E
any time now infact.

She had planned to come this W/E with her new boyfriend (quite serious from all accounts) for him to meet her Dad....

I''ve already met him, & he''s a sweetheart.
Just what my daughter needs right now. What,with whats going on with her Dad & me right now....

Any way, I''ve promised her for years that we will go indoor Rock Climbing...
Me being the coward I am have put it off & put it off...

Well.Watch this space.Tomorrow is the day..
I''ver booked it & paid for it ...

This is the dawning of the new me....

This is me reverting back to the person I was before her met her Dad.

A fun loving, socialising person.
Who, when I was Nurse Training in the Armed Forces, none of us would think anything of finishing a Late Shift partying all night, then, to late to go to bed, would all sit up together to start the Early Shift 07.30hr.

By they were the days.....

Hopefully I can be this person again....
Albeit a much older one .....

He, loved to go to his bed by 22.00hrs 24.00hrs if we were not doing anything else.

I got into that habit to....

Became a boring old fart... BUT

Underneath, there was the real me fighting to get out.......

WELL hey. The time has arrived.

I have to have the courage of my convictions & GO FOR IT !!!!!!

Well, I''ll finish here coz get what

I''ve a chicken pie to bake.
Proffiteroles to bake,filled with fresh cream no less and coated with melted chocolate!!!!

See what I mean.....

Hugs kisses to every one.xxxx

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