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11 Oct 12 #360479 by stresseduk
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Do all men turn so nasty and cruel after being married to us for years. My x is doing everything in his power to make me miserable and leave me with nothing. he is earning £50,0000 a year, and has not helped me at all after he left. he left me with 3 boys and knew i earned a low income. He has reduced his hours at work to reduce his salary and built up his debts. We are at FH next weel and i,m scared i,ll be left homeless and skint.

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11 Oct 12 #360496 by sulkypants
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Ummm... from my experience married 20 years brought a huge amount of money into marriage where as he he brought only debts...


You need to take a step back and look at this from his side (and whatever legal advice he has been given, which will be to minimize his earnings over value anything he thinks you will accept such as marital home so please get your own independent valuations and wack up his expenses.

Yes you feel scared ( I literally could not open my mail and found out the benefits system was so fragmented I still have been unable to apply for income support two years on)

One thing I do know is that if you only try and do one thing a day you will get there, small steps and rant on here someone on here bas been been there done that and bought the T shirt.

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