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15 Oct 12 #360998 by stresseduk
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:(I,m in court tomorrow for final hearing. I,m so scared as my x is a narcicisst that has controlled our finances all through a 20 year marriage. he has cut his working hours and raised his debt since he left. He is on a good salary but wants me with nothing. Please send me positive thoughts xx

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15 Oct 12 #361001 by sim5355
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hi! stresseduk
I will be thinking of you and please let us know what the outcome is. like you i have a narcicisstic ex and i have my final the 14th nov remember they lie so you will have to prove there lies, the court have seen these types before .Good luck (())

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15 Oct 12 #361002 by rubytuesday
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Sending you lots of luck and positive thoughts for tomorrow, stresseduk.

Be guided by your barrister and solicitor, and don''t let the other side intimidate you - stay strong.

Take Care


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