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17 Aug 08 #41016 by loopylil
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Just going to have a moan about my situation in the vague hope i will feel better after seeing it on screen.

I find every day a struggle trying to keep the debt collection agencies at bay, all because i re-bounded into a second marriage(they say love is blind) but i must have been deaf dumb and stupid. He drained my bank by using my money to do his cess pit of a house up and put it into positive equity only to find out his ex wife of 8 years was still on the mortgage.

I found it hard to tell anyone of my mistakes coz i see life as you make your bed so lie in it! And God have i been lying in it up to my neck in debt he's laughing his head off and i try to avoid going on the electoral register as i live in fear of creditors finding me.

I realise i made the mistakes but must i pay for them for the rest of my life, getting up each day gets harder and harder but life goes on. I am probably my biggest critic about my situation i cant go bankrupt as i am trying to locate my stbx and my money, if i go bankrupt i wont gwet any money back catch 22.

Anyways thats my moan on this boring Sunday night.

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17 Aug 08 #41018 by Roobarb
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Blimey, I know they say that there is always someone worse off than you but this is ridiculous. I really don't know what to say to you, it's one thing dealing with the emotional side of things but your problems can't be solved with a nice chat and a cup of tea and sympathy.

Have you talked to anyone professional about your financial problems, are there such things as debt counsellors?

Wish I could be of more help. Hope things work out for you, take care.

Mad x

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17 Aug 08 #41020 by loopylil
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Mad
I have all the paperwork for bankruptcy but cant do it until divorce sorted out, lifes a b***h but hey thank god for overdratfs

Thanks

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