We never got as far as councelling. This is not what I wanted to explain to you. I sincerely hope things turn out for you. Things were never luke warm between us, totally the opposite. Everything was so intense. I just wanted you to be aware of how things could be xx
I had a situation where my abusive partner and I seperated, but I still thought we could make things work( ! ) I spent a year taking the crumbs from his table, whilst he lived in Scotland, travelling home to avail himself of intimate home comforts twice a month. He managed- as abusers do- to make me feel like I was the only one to blaim for the failiure of the relationship.He winged and moaned, and loved the control he knew he continued to have because I allowed it. All that year, he was leading a double life with two women who didn't even know I existed.Now he is trying to screw me financially and his petition says I am totally to blame for everything.
Now I finally know what a creep and conman he is.
You have to make your own decision, but please don't be used. If it's gone, it's gone- and the sooner you accept that, the sooner you will recover from this. I hope you find your happiness- not just waiting around for someone else to permit you to be happy