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its the unfairness of it alll

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22 Apr 14 #430965 by justlost
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Right I know I''m feeling sorry for myself but it makes me sooo angry I feel like I should be standing in a crowded street screaming....

I have given up my home, got rid of all and every non essential bill, got my budget down by over 600/month,found a job that will pay the bills. Everything I can do I have done and what''s my reward - well you can survive now you don''t need maintenance.

I don''t want to survive I want to live too. I want the odd hair cut, to buy new clothes rather than what I can find in charity shops, go dancing, be able to buy my kids a pizza out or go to the cinema with them. None of which is possible on my salary.

I want to be nice mum occasionally not just tired grumpy skint mum. I want to be able to replace something that''s broken not just gaffer tape it up or do without.

Grrrrrrrrrrr - how can this be right?

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22 Apr 14 #430971 by elizadoolittle
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Justlost I am sending you huge hugs. I wish I could do something to help. You have just voiced my feelings exactly. It is absolutely NOT fair.

I am the grumpy mummy. He is nothing.

It is absolutely not fair.


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22 Apr 14 #430973 by Home alone getting better
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Just lost

Sending you some virtual hugs.

Take care and be strong x

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