Well,, I woke up this morning to the sunshine . Reading the replies help me along . Feeling better this morning , thank you all for the support . I guess I just gotta sit it out and try focus on my future . What will be will be . Thank you my wiki friends . There is no easy way at all through this , is there . Ex is in her Shangri- La I''m picking up the mess left behind .
Or are they in Shangri- la . Might create a new thread on that one .
Hi D - reading your post made me think a bit. I got divorced from my first husband about 10 years ago and he is now a friend. I have very clearly accepted and moved on from what happened.
I got remarried 5 years ago and what has happened with my second husband is a different matter. He has been having an affair for 18 months; sometimes it''s over, sometimes it''s not. And, even when it is over, I am stuck in the past, worrying that the horror is going to start all over again but I stay with him because I can''t accept that he isn''t the man I fell in love with. Like you all I have good days and bad days. I want to bottle the good days and stay in bed on the bad.
The good news is that I know from experience with my first husband that things will get better and that I won''t always be stuck in the past. I can learn to accept what has happened and I refuse to be beaten into submission by someone that is has been such a happy part of my life.