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25 Apr 14 #431334 by Declan
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You know what polar . I think that post sure does cheer one up . Mine has gone off doing the same sort of stuff .
Time will tell eh
Pleased for you polar . I really am . Nice to see you rise from the ashes and go on . Top man .


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25 Apr 14 #431341 by Jane1998
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I wonder..... When I woke up this morning, I wondered how often he thought about us, I think of him all the time, thinking he is having a ball. He looked so smug the day he left, 3 months ago, to go pursue his mid life crisis, spending even more time on himself and doing his hobbies. You see he wanted it all, and when I questioned his support, it was a definite " I''m not changing anything" he lived like a single person, my fault to a degree, his "friends" now mean more to him than me, but they are all in relationships, and he thinks they would put him first which is how self obsessed he is, but over Easter where were his friends??? Enjoying time with their families hence the numerous texts to me, just think he was bored in his bachelor pad and wanted to push my buttons, which he did, more fool me for replying, he assumed I was in the house either crying over him or watching t.v which on both counts were wrong, I had a good holiday and am now doing new things, including meeting up with new friends tomorrow in Manchester. So is he living the dream? Maybe, but I hope not, and hope not to care soon either. I just gotta find my own happiness and stop the " I wonder....."

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