Well said shoe .
You just put into words how I sometimes go . I''m almost at two year point .
Been clearing stuff out and now have a few houses lined up in my sights . Gonna call,at the agents laters to pick up the info on them .
Yes, it''s bearing the truth and I am learning to accept that Somedays I will feel not so good and some days ok .
I know though , that I am not my pre divorce self . In fact , I haven''t been on top form for a few years yet as before we parted it was not good .
However, deciding to take that step into the future kinda made me feel a bit excited when I was looking at my financial situation and now I know I can still afford to buy an house outright in my beloved home village . Amongst all my friends and lifestyle .
I think Marshy aptly put it when he said , you can only sit in one chair , lie in one bed . Inner peace is far more important than all the worldly goods .
Glad that you found yours Shoe .,