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19 Jun 14 #437316 by Declan
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How are you fella ?

Look !, I journaled after the break up still do my friend .
In fact just bought another nice journal .
Yep , counselling as well .

J you are going to be okay . Know that in your heart and believe it .
Hell !, fella you are doing great .
I have only recently taken my head out of the sand and looked around me.
It''s like a nuclear bomb has gone off .
I partied too much , spent loads. Mind you I got my guitars ,

Friends , yeah . God I need them and family what''s left of it .

So , J go talk the socks off the counsellor . Write until the paper sets on fire . Don''t even think about it just get it all out .

I have just written a song about it all and sent it to a friend and they love it . Easy one really verse and chorus. Left the bridge out . However . It helps to get it out .
What''s your passion J then indulge man .

Drinking , fornicatimg , pillaging and idleness are out I''m afraid.
Otherwise , I would have loved to go on a Viking ship and invade and well you know the rest . Think I would suit a horned hat and axe ...... Then again ......

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19 Jun 14 #437324 by JTee
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lol i have been referred to some sort of relationship breakup counselling place 12 week wait i might get divorced and remarry by then lol

cheers Declan

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19 Jun 14 #437325 by Declan
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Ha ha J yeah and divorced again . Unless we learn our lessons.

We are in class . My friend. I have changed my ex name in the phone . I had slug ***** you name it the lot . I have now named her Teacher on the phone .
Kinda helps to see it differently .
Another technique when it gets tough . Instead of using the term unbearable , I use the term barely bearable . Subtle difference but sends a different message to the brain .
Now it''s , I have the opportunity to watch as much World Cup football as I want . I can mess on guitar as much as I want. Etc

Not saying it''s perfect by a long chalk . Just helps me along the day when the lows come.
Off out with mates tonight to watch england . Now in the past this soft arse would be saying yes dear no dear three bags full dear .

You are changing J you may not think so but boy you sure are .

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19 Jun 14 #437326 by JTee
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have a good time tonight cmon England got my lad over to watch it with me tonight lads night in

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