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09 Nov 14 #448784 by Jake14
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Been split with ow for over 6 months now and have had to put up with so much with regards to seeing my son. Have tried to reach agreements have asked for mediation but all of this has been refused. Put up with harassment her new fella moving in then out of the blue ow asks me for a truce. Brilliant I thought couldn''t wish for anything better finally no more trouble we agreed to draw a line under everything that had happened and start a fresh . We agreed to use a communication book on advice from solicitor to help us get along until things were better between us that we could communicate without any arguments.And it''s all been going fine for 2 weeks then out of the blue it all starts off again and we''re back to square one ! And now the communication book is an issue according to her health visitor or so ow claims ! Just don''t understand why she still has such an issue with me ? And why call a truce if after 2 weeks she decides different did she get bored or something? Or was it just to play games? Her new fella must be really happy that she''s so obsessed with making my life so difficult! All I want is to see my son without any dramas

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09 Nov 14 #448792 by Home alone feeling better
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Evening

If there is one thing I have learnt through this process is that the goal posts keep moving and they are adjusted to suit others.

Look after yourself and maintain being strong.

You will get there x

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