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hi Declan, you need to love yourself and not just be kind to yourself. there is nothing I would change about myself believe me, the fault is entirely on my ex, I can say that with total honesty. so don''t suffer and hurt yourself more, there is no reason at all why a couple if and only if both want to try and mend their marriage, given the chance, wouldn''t. we cannot control or try to control our ex partners, the same way they themselves couldn''t. that''s why this realisation should lessen the pain and help the healing. no matter what was the reason, if the will and good intentions were there from both, the marriage wouldn''t break. I personally do not want to continue living or lying with someone who does not want to live with me fullstop. let them go to hell.