I spoke to someone yesterday - they were amazing. Helped me to set some issues in relative scale and thereby push some to one side for now, which is just as important.
Part of our discussion included 'so what did you talk about with your solicitor'. I guess the solicitor has a reasonable picture. I think he asked most of the questions to set the scene and I did most of the talking to provide the answers. Unfortunately that meant I didn't come away much enlightened and with a few quite key questions I was starting to worry which isn't healthy.
As a result of your help yesterday, my head is back above water.