I just have to tell you all. Have appplied for my Decree Absolute today. Should take about 2 weeks so Ive been told. Didnt see any point in waiting as my stbx can now apply for it anyway - even though my solicitor said not to.
The idea of being completely nothing to do with my stbx any more was just too strong for me to igonore. Being single and free was just too attractive - I cant wait till that piece of paper arrives telling me Im now completely divorced of him for evermore!!!