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but yet I feel so unfulfilled and feel there is no one there to share my good and bad days, my triumphs and disappointments, in other words I feel empty and lonely, I don''t want anyone''s sympathy, but to just hear me.
I know there is still so much of my life to look forward to, I have a holiday later this year, but still I feel held back, chained down and feel not freed, I feel like everyday that passes by is just that, another day, I want something to change but I am not sure what it is. I do sound like a spaniel that has lost his sense of smell
I''m 3 years in, not divorced yet & finding it very difficult to fully move on. It''s not surprising really because until everything is done & the divorce is through, I''m still technically married & I don''t want to be his wife anymore. That just feels wrong now. Sad when it felt like the most right thing in the world all those years ago
In your head you are still tied to him. Even though you are separated. But seperation and divorce are two seperate things. What you may find is that once you divorce, you will know that the ties that bound you to him are gone and you may feel that finaly, you can put this whole sorry mess behind you.
I''m still technically married & I don''t want to be his wife anymore.
Like you, I have fond feelings towards my ex - despite his affair & the hideous times which followed.