My husband is about to file divorce papers to me under unreasonable behaviour - I don''t agree with his claims since he makes no acknowledgement that part of the breakdown was due to him having a relationship with another woman. I can either accept and sign the papers to move on quickly, or I can defend which may be costly. I can also cross-petition and divorce him but either way I loose out financially
Anyone have any thoughts on this as I''m going out of my mind worrying about it!!
Thanks for your advice - have actually read quite a bit giving the same advice. It''s shit really because he makes no acknowledgement of having caused the breakdown himself. I''m more worried that he thinks he can get a financial order for money he says I owe him because he paid all the bills and rent etc
Hi Pinkminx. The best way to look at the divorce petition is that it''s a means to an end and nobody likes to be on the receiving end of a UB Petition. However, if your stbx acknowledged fault for his indiscretions then the divorce petition may fail. He can''t say that you are unreasonable and then say well maybe he was a bit aswell. Everybody knows its never one person''s fault. As for the finances they are dealt with separately so don''t worry about that in terms of the divorce petition. Best wishes.