Finally over

Tonight I finally realised its over..never wanted it to be but now have decided it is..when did other Wikis realise there was no turning back? So sad xx

Hope you''re okay. Awful wen this happens, but perhaps a weight has been lifted. you will get lots support and help here. Lots of hugs

I should have left 12 years ago but did not pluck up the courage until 2plus years ago but better late than never.

You are free now... Scary. but maybe a great new beginning.... You''ll be fine x

I should have made the decision to Divorce my STBX about 5 years ago but kept hoping things would change.I realised there was no hope when he said he didn''t want a Divorce but couldn''t be bothered trying to work on putting things right!Say''s it all really.I had 2 choices put up with things as they were and keep being miserable or get out and hope things would be better on my own.So far I feel much better than I did having made the decision to go for a Divorce but I so wish I hadn''t needed to.

Wen I finally made the decision it felt Sooo good for me. Novelty wears off., reality sets in, really sh* *y... But one of the best decisions I have ever made, no regrets. I m hoping it will get easier in time.

Hey birdlegs, well done you

Redwine: trust me, it gets easier in time

I''ve been married twice - BOTH husbands used to tell me ''the marriage is over'' every time there was a row. I would fall apart. In both cases, my moment of enlightenment was exactly the same. The last time each of them said that to me... I didn''t fall apart. That''s when I knew I was done.

I''ve only said that twice in my life (once to each) and what is very interesting to me is that, ultimately, neither husband wanted to divorce...

Shezi

When the purchase of her house was finalised...

LB