can anyone advise please

hi everyone i know this may sound a bit silly but i was wondering if someone could help today i received a copy of his solicitors letter to mine and it is asking "whether it has been indicated that Mrs b (me) shall be consenting to the divorce on the grounds provided in the same (ie ub - but hes the adulterer) if not please inform us if there are any amendments your client (me) wishes to make to the Petition and we shall take our clients instructions on the same to enable to progress as swiftly as possible "
my question is ''is it normal to ask whether i iam agreeing because i thought that hed just put the papers in and then id respond its just that i told him (stbx)hed lied on the petition and to get my own back i told him that i would not divorce him and hed have to wait 5 yrs i know that may sound silly to some but i was angry at the time (i have other posts explaining what he''d done ) anyway i know i may have gone on a bit here but couldnt think of a shorter way of putting it !! sorry
anyway the question once again is this the normal procedure ??? justwondering
hugs to you all

Yes it is normal etiquette to send a draft Petition. (He''s not under any obligation to listen to any objections you may have, though...)

Best response: "I will not contest the divorce petition as long as no costs claim is made".

hi cookie2
thanks for that - ''no costs claim'' ? could he try and make me pay for the divorce ?

Yes, he could. It''s quite common to say the above... basically that you will make his life easy (cooperate with his petition) if he does not claim costs.

oh ok thanks for that