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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.


challenging divorce petition

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24 May 12 #332596 by cookie2
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scouser24 wrote:

will happily subpoena and court order for mobile and email records if I can.

I very much doubt you''ll be able to get that information. She has a right to privacy under the EU human rights act.

If she''s still living with you then I''d suggest a keylogger on the PC? But don''t tell anyone I told you that.


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it feels like the other person can make up their mind to divorce and there isn''t a great deal you can do about it.

Yes, indeed. She no longer wants to be married to you, why should she be forced to?

If divorce had to have the permission of both spouses then how many domestic abuse victims would still be married to their abusive husbands?

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24 May 12 #332779 by scouser24
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thanks cookie - some good points there and I know ultimately this is going to happen unless she has a miraculous change of heart. It''s just so frustrating that I can''t really do anything. I even thought about hiring a PI but not even sure if they can do anything..?

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25 May 12 #332851 by cookie2
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Why do you want to hire a PI? The fact is, she wants a divorce. Nothing a PI can tell you would change that.

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