You have a legal and moral duty to provide for your children, including your unborn child. Divorce settlements are not calculated on the basis of what you would like to leave to your children as an inheritance but on the present and future needs of the children and both husband and wife. I really cannot imagine what your wife is going through, particularly in her condition, if she is aware of you attempting to hide assets in this way. She must be very fearful for her future financial security. I think you need to decide if you really do want the marriage to be salvaged. If not, then do some research on how assets are split in a fair and honest way.
Sounds like mystbx as long as he was happy we all had tobe, there was never anydiscussion if he wanted anything it was ok anbd if anyone else had an opinion they were looked upon as if they were speaking a foreign language.
I once bought him a tee shirt with " I,I,I me,me,me,self ,self self" on it but he didn''t get it he is so thick skinned.