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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.


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16 Jun 12 #337074 by soobee
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:(hi for anyone who knows me...you will know that im in the process of divorce got Decree Nisi...stbx has not wanted to sort out finances ..been to mediation ..that failed as he felt i deserved or didnt want to give me anything.....did recieve letter from his solicitor about exchanging a voluntary form E..my solicitor said go straight to court as hes not been honest in past bout earnings savings etc....think he got letter bout this today and low behold he wants to meet up to talk bout things........what am i to do ...its never worked in the past just gone round in circles ...have offered counselling but nope he didnt want to do that either....any advice would be gratefully recieved....:(:(:(:(

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18 Jun 12 #337348 by jonathancj
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Don''t bother. He had his chance in mediation. All he wants to do is put you under pressure to let him off the hook. You have a solicitor - very wise I suspect. Let the solicitor obtain the necessary disclosure and put an appropriate offer on your behalf.

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18 Jun 12 #337427 by soobee
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thanks for reply....i refused to meet up with him...and it didnt go down well...but as you say he had his chance in mediation....

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