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What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.


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07 Jul 12 #341730 by soobee
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hi im the Petitioner in my divorce got Nisi and can apply for Absolute ...my ex sol has informed him that he can apply for absolute but he cant till the end of sept....i know hes given his sol chq for £45 for fees.....im am so confused and worried that somehow he will manage to wrangle this ....we are no where near sorting out finances as hes stalling on everything whilst he hides all the money etc....im not sure how everything happens ...my sol said that if he applied in sept she would block it due to outstanding issues.......please advise as im really worried im going to be the one that comes out worse in all this :(:(:(:(

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07 Jul 12 #341736 by cookie2
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Your solicitor has advised you - don''t you believe her?? :)

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07 Jul 12 #341745 by soobee
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yes i do ...but my ex has a way of getting what he wants ...im just not sure of the process ..i know she did state on divorce petition that there was major concerns about him hiding money etc....

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07 Jul 12 #341754 by cookie2
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Try not to listen to your ex - he is the enemy remember. Your solicitor is on your side. You should trust her.

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07 Jul 12 #341797 by soobee
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i know your right cookie ...just didnt know if he could go ahead without the court letting my sol know...????

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08 Jul 12 #341829 by cookie2
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If you know I''m right, and your sol''s right, I''m not really sure what you''re worried about...? :)

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